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Chemsex Recovery: Relighting The Fire
Chemsex ruined my life and welded the drugs to my sexuality. Sobriety did not have to mean a dead cock. Art, music, and other men were how I got the fire back.
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GET LOST with “LOSE ME”
LOSE ME is a track from our upcoming collection of songs BROTHERHOOD, all about masculine initiation and entering manhood. Group sex is not necessarily a part of initiation into manhood, but for men who have sex with men, it can be a profound healing experience. The music video for LOSE ME is a sequel to…
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B8: The Song That Changed My Life
In this article I share with you how I got over myself and my body image issues to create music and imagery about my love of bating. I learned how to love myself as I am and quit chasing unrealistic beauty standards. But most importantly, I learned more about myself as a man. When we…
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Is Porn Different For Gay Men?
When I was fifteen in small-town Indiana, porn magazines were proof that other gay men existed. The modern anti-porn case was written to explain what men do to women. That theory does not travel cleanly onto two men.
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BATE FUEL Videos Is Live: 70+ Uncensored Music Videos for Men
We launched BATE FUEL Videos — a video site built so a man can watch every music video we have made, on his phone or cast to a television, without an algorithm deciding he is not allowed to see it. There are more than 70 BATE FUEL videos up now. More are coming. This is…
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Porn Addiction: Is it Real?
Porn addiction. The phrase hits hard for many men. It conjures images of endless scrolling, lost hours, strained relationships, and a heavy cloud of guilt around your cock and what makes it hard. But what if the real issue isn’t the porn itself? What if it’s the shame, disconnection, and immaturity that turns a natural…
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Sexual Integration: No Man Is Exempt
Sexual integration is not often discussed but it is one of the most high-impact pieces of masculine development. For many men, it is the oft-overlooked foundation on which everything else is built. Before discipline, presence, leadership and creativity, an integrated sexuality makes all of that way easier. If sexuality remains fragmented, performative, compulsive or shut…
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WHEN THE WORLD DIVIDES
There is nothing quite like beautifully shot male erotica. It’s different than straight up porn. Porn is great. We’re big fans of it here. But male erotica evokes desire and sensation more than just quick release. Porn can get you off but erotica can raise desire to a fever pitch. Male erotica that focuses on…
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DEGENERATE
They call us degenerate but I don’t think they know what that means. Getting out of the head and into the body is divine. When we experience our untamed animal nature, we humble ourselves before God. We don’t try to pretend we’re more than what we are. To be degenerate is to cease thinking. We…
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MAN UP REGIMEN: Lifestyle, Sexuality And Supplements For Men
Men love to share wisdom and what works with each other. We don’t necessarily give advice here, but we do share what works for us. This MAN UP Regimen is not necessarily a formal program but a collection of things that works for both me and my husband and has contributed to our overall well-being.…
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- Chemsex Recovery: Relighting The Fire
- GET LOST with “LOSE ME”
- B8: The Song That Changed My Life
- Is Porn Different For Gay Men?
- BATE FUEL Videos Is Live: 70+ Uncensored Music Videos for Men
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